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Emotional Pain

Forgiveness: The Cornerstone of Codependency Recovery

Forgiveness: The Cornerstone of Codependency Recovery By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  Understanding the significance of forgiveness—both for ourselves and for those...

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Shame

Healing Shame: The Heart of Addiction and Codependency

Healing Shame: The Heart of Addiction and Codependency By Joshua Bardez Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  To support you in recognizing and healing the...

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Letting Go

Letting Go: One of the Hardest Part of My on Going Co-Dependency Recovery

By Joshua Bardez Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  Letting go is a challenging journey, especially when it feels like the very essence of your...

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Emotional Pain

Why Affirmations Don’t Work: The Science-Backed Truth

By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  Positive thinking brings with it a beautiful promise of hope, success, and joy. The act of...

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Fear

Conquering Fear: Stop Making Excuses, Prioritize Your Emotional Well-being

Conquering Fear: Stop Making Excuses, Prioritize Your Emotional Well-being By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast Co-Dependency Editorial Staff  --- Taking care of your emotional well-being is...

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Healing

Taking complete ownership of your actions and making the necessary reparations in Codependents Anonymous.

Embracing full Responsibility for Your Choices and Making the Essential Amends in Codependents Anonymous. By Joshua Bardez, Co-Dependency Editorial Staff --- As we embark on...

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Healing

Why Our Brains Are Wired for Negativity: Understanding the Science of Negativity Bias

Why Our Brains Are Wired for Negativity: Understanding the Science of Negativity Bias By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- In our lives,...

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Emotional Pain

Emotional Pain: The Unexpected Master Teacher for Emotional and Spiritual Growth

By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- Emotional pain can weigh heavily on our hearts, much like a burdensome load. Many of us...

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Healing

The Perfectionist’s Dilemma.

Posted on March 10, 2014 by Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT Perfectionism is an addiction, meaning we’re repeatedly unable to stop our perfectionist behaviors. It harms our...

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Fear

The Infantile Grip: How Power and Control Mask Adult Insecurities

By Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  One of the significant hurdles I encountered on my CoDA journey was the constant temptation to take control...

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Emotional Pain

Conquering Anger and Rage: No Recovery Without Facing Your Pain

By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDependents Anonymous Editorial Staff ---  The pain we sometimes ignore can lead to outbursts of anger we can’t control. When...

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CoDA

Exploring Codependency: Understanding Symptoms, Recovery, and Strategies for Sustainable Healing

9 Feb 2018 by Joaquín Selva, Bc.S., Psychologist Scientifically reviewed by Tiffany Sauber Millacci, Ph.D. ---  9 Feb 2018 by Joaquín Selva, Bc.S., Psychologist Scientifically reviewed by Tiffany Sauber Millacci, Ph.D. --- ...

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CoDA

Cultivating Empathy with Detached Compassion: A Practical Guide

By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  The demand for emotional concern in helping those in CoDA recovery has never been higher. We often...

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Shame

Guilt vs. Shame: Understanding the Key Differences Between These Powerful Emotions

Medically reviewed by N. Simay Gökbayrak, PhD — Written by Hilary I. Lebow on October 20, 2021 ---  Many people use ‘guilt’ and ‘shame’ interchangeably, but...

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Emotional Pain

Childhood Trauma and Codependency: Untangling the Complex Connection

By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDa Editorial Staff ---  Introduction: The Seeds of Codependency --After returning from a ten-day mission, I was greeted by a...

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Shame

Shame: The Core of Addiction and Codependency

Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD —Written by Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT — Shame is so painful to the psyche that most people will do...

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Fear

Obsessed with Control: Addressing Perfectionism and Codependence

By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff | Reviewed by Dr. Frankie Neilsen: Psy D. Clinical Psychology (Retired) ---  The pursuit of control often...

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CoDA

About the Codependents Anonymous 12-Step Recovery Program

Written by: American Addiction Centers Editorial Staff Edited by: Kindra Sclar ---  Co-Dependency refers to a psychological construct involving an unhealthy relationship that people might share...

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CoDA

Codependency: Identifying the Indicators and Strategies for Overcoming It.

By Joaquín Selva, Bc.S., Psychologist  Scientifically reviewed by Tiffany Sauber Millacci, Ph.D. ---  It was originally thought to involve families of substance abuse but has since...

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CoDA

Indicators of Co-Dependency

By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff ---  Co-dependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down through generations. It signifies an emotional...

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CoDA

Co-Dependency (Relationship Conflict and Addiction)

By Joshua Bardez and Shailes McWan, Lost Coast Editorial Staff ---  Co-dependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down from one generation to...

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