CoDA Articles



Forgiveness: The Cornerstone of Codependency Recovery
Forgiveness: The Cornerstone of Codependency Recovery By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- Understanding the significance of forgiveness—both for ourselves and for those...
Read MoreHealing Shame: The Heart of Addiction and Codependency
Healing Shame: The Heart of Addiction and Codependency By Joshua Bardez Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- To support you in recognizing and healing the...
Read MoreLetting Go: One of the Hardest Part of My on Going Co-Dependency Recovery
By Joshua Bardez Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- Letting go is a challenging journey, especially when it feels like the very essence of your...
Read MoreWhy Affirmations Don’t Work: The Science-Backed Truth
By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- Positive thinking brings with it a beautiful promise of hope, success, and joy. The act of...
Read MoreConquering Fear: Stop Making Excuses, Prioritize Your Emotional Well-being
Conquering Fear: Stop Making Excuses, Prioritize Your Emotional Well-being By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast Co-Dependency Editorial Staff --- Taking care of your emotional well-being is...
Read MoreTaking complete ownership of your actions and making the necessary reparations in Codependents Anonymous.
Embracing full Responsibility for Your Choices and Making the Essential Amends in Codependents Anonymous. By Joshua Bardez, Co-Dependency Editorial Staff --- As we embark on...
Read MoreWhy Our Brains Are Wired for Negativity: Understanding the Science of Negativity Bias
Why Our Brains Are Wired for Negativity: Understanding the Science of Negativity Bias By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- In our lives,...
Read MoreEmotional Pain: The Unexpected Master Teacher for Emotional and Spiritual Growth
By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- Emotional pain can weigh heavily on our hearts, much like a burdensome load. Many of us...
Read MoreThe Perfectionist’s Dilemma.
Posted on March 10, 2014 by Darlene Lancer, JD, LMFT Perfectionism is an addiction, meaning we’re repeatedly unable to stop our perfectionist behaviors. It harms our...
Read MoreThe Infantile Grip: How Power and Control Mask Adult Insecurities
By Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- One of the significant hurdles I encountered on my CoDA journey was the constant temptation to take control...
Read MoreConquering Anger and Rage: No Recovery Without Facing Your Pain
By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDependents Anonymous Editorial Staff --- The pain we sometimes ignore can lead to outbursts of anger we can’t control. When...
Read MoreExploring Codependency: Understanding Symptoms, Recovery, and Strategies for Sustainable Healing
9 Feb 2018 by Joaquín Selva, Bc.S., Psychologist Scientifically reviewed by Tiffany Sauber Millacci, Ph.D. --- 9 Feb 2018 by Joaquín Selva, Bc.S., Psychologist Scientifically reviewed by Tiffany Sauber Millacci, Ph.D. --- ...
Read MoreCultivating Empathy with Detached Compassion: A Practical Guide
By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- The demand for emotional concern in helping those in CoDA recovery has never been higher. We often...
Read MoreGuilt vs. Shame: Understanding the Key Differences Between These Powerful Emotions
Medically reviewed by N. Simay Gökbayrak, PhD — Written by Hilary I. Lebow on October 20, 2021 --- Many people use ‘guilt’ and ‘shame’ interchangeably, but...
Read MoreChildhood Trauma and Codependency: Untangling the Complex Connection
By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDa Editorial Staff --- Introduction: The Seeds of Codependency --After returning from a ten-day mission, I was greeted by a...
Read MoreShame: The Core of Addiction and Codependency
Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD —Written by Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT — Shame is so painful to the psyche that most people will do...
Read MoreObsessed with Control: Addressing Perfectionism and Codependence
By Shailes McWan, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff | Reviewed by Dr. Frankie Neilsen: Psy D. Clinical Psychology (Retired) --- The pursuit of control often...
Read MoreAbout the Codependents Anonymous 12-Step Recovery Program
Written by: American Addiction Centers Editorial Staff Edited by: Kindra Sclar --- Co-Dependency refers to a psychological construct involving an unhealthy relationship that people might share...
Read MoreCodependency: Identifying the Indicators and Strategies for Overcoming It.
By Joaquín Selva, Bc.S., Psychologist Scientifically reviewed by Tiffany Sauber Millacci, Ph.D. --- It was originally thought to involve families of substance abuse but has since...
Read MoreIndicators of Co-Dependency
By Joshua Bardez, Lost Coast CoDA Editorial Staff --- Co-dependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down through generations. It signifies an emotional...
Read MoreCo-Dependency (Relationship Conflict and Addiction)
By Joshua Bardez and Shailes McWan, Lost Coast Editorial Staff --- Co-dependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down from one generation to...
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